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Your Body’s Telling On You
This post explores the real cost of ignoring your health—from the food you eat to the systems that shape your choices. It challenges readers to go beyond knowing better to actually doing better

Troy Rienstra
Dec 1, 2025


Resisting Growth
This blog challenges us to slow down, confront internal patterns, and recognize how unseen resistance can quietly delay real transformation.

Troy Rienstra
Nov 24, 2025


Not Just Another Season
A grounded look at the holidays through the lens of healing, growth, and real-life resilience.

Troy Rienstra
Nov 20, 2025


Purpose Over Popularity
Clout fades. Purpose builds legacy. This piece challenges performative culture and calls us back to truth, impact, and integrity.

Troy Rienstra
Sep 16, 2025


Why You Can’t Over love Your Children
Boys who receive unconditional love grow into secure, resilient men. Affection doesn’t weaken them—it builds lasting strength.

Troy Rienstra
Sep 8, 2025


Community Is More Than a Zip Code
Communities thrive when we choose progress over comfort, let go of the past, and build together for a future we all call home.

Troy Rienstra
Sep 1, 2025


The Power of Routine
Routine is the quiet power that shapes resilience, identity, and stability—small daily rhythms build the architecture of life.

Troy Rienstra
Aug 25, 2025


Living not surviving
Stuck in survival mode? Learn how to shift from just getting by to truly living—with real insight, healing steps, and reflection.

Troy Rienstra
Aug 18, 2025


The Weight of Hypervigilance
Living in survival mode isn’t living. Learn how hypervigilance affects trauma survivors & how healing the body rewrites the mind.

Troy Rienstra
Aug 11, 2025


When Insecurities Come Out
Insecurity doesn’t vanish in healthy love—it surfaces. How you handle it determines if you build walls or deeper connection.

Troy Rienstra
Aug 4, 2025


Active Listening
Whether we realize it or not, many of us are engaged in conversations with people whose words are not just expressions of thoughts, but echoes of trauma.

Troy Rienstra
Jul 30, 2025


UBUNTU: I Am Because We Are
Ubuntu means “I am because we are.” In a fractured world, this philosophy offers a path forward—for justice, healing, and real reform.

Troy Rienstra
Jul 28, 2025


The Art of Relationships
In a changing world, relationships still build legacy—in business, community, and life. Connection is currency.

Troy Rienstra
Jul 21, 2025


“Big Mama”
I was living with PTSD—heavy, unrelenting, layered trauma. The kind that rewires your body to flinch at kindness and brace for betrayal. Honey didn’t ask questions. She didn’t need an intake form. She saw it all—and stayed.

Troy Rienstra
Jul 14, 2025


Trauma Responses
Many traits we call “personality” are actually trauma responses. Learn to see the difference and reclaim who you truly are.

Troy Rienstra
Jul 14, 2025


the Modern Work World
From burnout to breakthroughs—explore how today’s evolving workplace is reshaping success, wellness, and the future of our kids.

Troy Rienstra
Jul 7, 2025


The Business of Us
Treat your marriage like your legacy—built with structure, vision, and emotional intelligence. The home is your greatest enterprise.

Troy Rienstra
Jun 30, 2025


The Price of Happiness
Is there a dollar amount for happiness? Science says yes—but it’s not what you think.

Troy Rienstra
Jun 23, 2025


Holding Onto Humanity
A reflection on faith, division, healing & the America we hope to become.

Troy Rienstra
Jun 19, 2025


Trauma Informed vs. Trauma Response
Being trauma-informed is knowing. Being trauma-responsive is doing. One shifts language. The other shifts lives.

Troy Rienstra
Jun 16, 2025
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